By Curtis Shelburne: Religion columnist
In his delightful book, Jayber Crow, author Wendell Berry has one character tell this little tale about another one:
“Fraz Berlew was drunk and wandering. He wandered into a saloon down at Hargrave. The saloonkeeper was out and the place was empty. Fraz just helped himself to a considerable portion of the merchandise, and wandered on.
“When he wandered back again the saloonkeeper was there. He said, ‘Fraz, did you come in here and drink up a bunch of my whiskey while I was gone?’
“And Fraz said, ‘I can’t rightly say. But it sounds like me.’”
That little story makes me think — not about Fraz Berlew but about you. And about me.
It’s one thing for a saloonkeeper to miss some of his stock, see an ol’ boy wander through, and immediately recognize the culprit, even if the culprit’s not absolutely sure he is the culprit! It’s another for someone to see or hear of an act of kindness, generosity, largeness of spirit, and immediately think, “I’m not sure who did that, but it sure sounds like . . .”
What a great thing if folks are tempted to make that kind of statement about you.
“Hey, did anybody see _____ wander through our workplace here? Everybody seems happier than usual today. I’m not sure she was here, but it sure seems like she might have been.”
“Did anybody see ______ come through our home? I’m not sure he was here, but today the members of our family have just seemed more accepting of and thankful for each other, and I just thought ___ had probably been here.”
“Was ______ here today in our (home, business, school, office, church)? So-and-so was really feeling down, dirty, and depressed because of [insert So-and-so’s sin, failure, burden, weakness, sorrow], and [he, she, or me] is so much better, I was pretty sure _______ must have spent some time here.”
I could go on, but you get the picture, don’t you? You can quickly think of some folks whose names fit into those blanks well. They are people who just spend some time in your home, walk through your office, visit your classroom, worship with you at church — people whose lives somehow intersect with yours perhaps in very small ways — but wherever they are, life somehow seems better, more filled with color, more joyful, more worth living, and more filled with grace and hope, no matter how dark or gloomy the day might have seemed before they passed through.
I think the Apostle Paul would say that such people have about them “the aroma of Christ.”
“Was _____ here today?”
“I can’t rightly say. But it sure seems like it because today this place is better, more gracious, more filled with hope than it was before.”
Curtis Shelburne is pastor of 16th & Ave. D. Church of Christ in Muleshoe. Contact him at firstname.lastname@example.org